But like every innocent kid, we all grow up and learn the real truths behind Christmas and our beliefs change. I went through a period in early college where I wanted to completely abandon anything related to Christmas. While my parents were indifferent, some of my friends were saddened to hear that I would no longer be taking part in Christmas traditions, such as exchanging gifts for our circle of friends or enjoying a glass of eggnog and brandy at midnight on Christmas Day. It's pretty safe to say I wasn't exactly the most mature person in my very early 20s. I made several mistakes and arrogantly thought I knew everything about myself and everyone else.
Fortunately, we never stop growing up and many years later, I've started to realize the real reason I enjoy Christmas. It's not for the presents, holiday music, or Christmas lights (actually, while I don't really do the commercial aspect of Christmas as much anymore, I won't completely dismiss it and still get presents for my nieces and nephew). I enjoy Christmas now because it brings my friends and family home for the holidays. Many of the people I grew up with have moved away from Arizona to have their lives, but for many, Arizona is still home and I can still expect many to be in town during the holidays. Life is about the people, the friendships and relationships you've built over decades, because without others, life becomes pretty meaningless. People coming home for the holidays is what I look forward to every Christmas now and that reason alone is enough to celebrate!
So whatever your reasons for celebrating Christmas, I wish you a Merry Christmas and hope you keep up with those friendships and traditions you've enjoyed for so many years. Merry Christmas from the Lin family: Andy and Duncan!
